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Why Celebrate Birthdays? Let’s Talk About It!
Originally published on - 03/09/2015 22:33
Revised version - 29/12/2024
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Ever wondered why we make such a big fuss about birthdays? From ageing woes to social expectations, this piece uncovers the paradox of birthday celebrations. With witty anecdotes and some hard truths, discover why birthdays might just be overrated—except for the cake, of course!

Why do we celebrate birthdays anyway?

Last month, I found myself pondering this peculiar tradition. What is so “happy” about a happy birthday? Every year, we are reminded that we are growing older. The wrinkles around our eyes deepen, and let’s face it, our youth is slipping away. Sure, they say age brings wisdom, but don’t we often repeat the same mistakes year after year?

For many of us, birthdays also mark a step closer to a life filled with doctor’s appointments and diagnostic tests. Hardly a cheerful milestone, wouldn’t you agree?

Should we really be celebrating our “achievements”?

Birthdays often feel like a moment to reflect on what we’ve accomplished. But in an era where the Earth’s carbon footprint grows larger and our planet’s health diminishes, celebrating feels… misplaced. Did you know that the average person produces about 4.8 metric tons of carbon dioxide annually? Makes you think twice about those party balloons, doesn’t it?

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Unless you are a politician (where people need an excuse to throw a party), there’s not much rationale for all the pomp and show. Instead, we are saddled with the stress of organising parties and deciding whom to invite. And let’s not forget the awkwardness of avoiding certain “friends” without offending them. It’s a logistical headache disguised as a celebration.

Do all those birthday wishes mean anything?

In our hyper-connected world, birthdays are synonymous with a deluge of notifications. Calls, texts, social media posts—they pour in from every direction. But let’s be honest: how many of these greetings are genuine? Some are automated, others obligatory. Rarely do they carry the warmth of real connection.

Here’s an anecdote: A friend once sent me a heartfelt birthday message, only to admit later that they’d forgotten and the message was prompted by an app. It made me chuckle and wonder if technology has robbed birthdays of their authenticity.

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Is the cake the only thing worth celebrating?

For me, birthdays boil down to one thing: the cake. There is something delightfully universal about this sugary centrepiece. Whether it’s a classic chocolate sponge or a fruit creation, the cake is the one truly happy part of a happy birthday. And hey, who doesn’t love a reason to indulge?

FAQs about Birthdays:

  1. Why do people celebrate birthdays?

    • Birthdays historically marked milestones in life and were seen as a time to reflect and celebrate survival.

  2. Are birthday parties necessary?

    • Not at all! A quiet day with loved ones or personal reflection can be just as meaningful.

  3. What are eco-friendly ways to celebrate birthdays?

    • Plant a tree, host a sustainable dinner, or donate to a cause instead of throwing a lavish party.

Birthdays, in their essence, remind us of the passage of time. But how we choose to observe them is entirely personal. For me, they are a mixed bag of social obligations, philosophical reflections, and—thankfully—delicious cake.

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About the Author: Tushar Mangl is the author of Ardika and The Avenging Act. He writes about books, food, personal finance, mental health, and the art of living a balanced, green life.

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