Tushar Mangl

As a child, I would cry quietly, longing for someone to comfort me, to hug me when I was sad, but no one ever did. That yearning for attention, for validation, stayed with me well into adulthood. But when I met Cara, everything changed. This is the story of my journey from childhood loneliness to a love that finally saw me. --- How did I end up in this predicament? I wasn’t an angry child; I was a quiet one. There is a difference, but people rarely notice it. Anger is loud, explosive, a force that demands attention. Quietness, though—that’s what goes unnoticed. People assume you’re fine when you’re silent, that you don’t need anything. What they don’t realise is that silence can be louder than words, and that quiet kids are often the ones who scream the loudest inside. As a child, I spent hours sitting by my bedroom window, staring at the rain-soaked streets outside. The grey clouds above seemed to echo the emptiness I felt inside. My room was small, cluttered with toys and forgotten d...

The dining room is more than just a space for meals; it is where families bond, conversations flow, and the energy of the home converges. The ancient practice of Vastu Shastra offers guidance on the design and layout of this essential space to enhance well-being and prosperity. In this guide, we’ll explore the ideal placement, colours, and arrangements that can turn your dining room into a haven of positive energy. --- The significance of a well-planned dining room Have you ever noticed how the atmosphere in your dining room can impact your mood during meals? It's not just the taste of the food that leaves a lasting impression, but also the environment in which you enjoy it. According to Vastu Shastra, ancient Indian science of architecture, the layout and energy flow in your dining room can directly influence your mental state and family harmony. Vastu principles are deeply rooted in the belief that specific arrangements of spaces can attract positive vibrations while warding off ...

The Idol Thief by S. Vijay Kumar takes you into the world of idol theft and art smuggling in South India, centring around the audacious crimes of Subhash Kapoor. With a narrative woven through the author’s real-life experiences and encounters with law enforcement, this true crime story reveals a shocking underbelly of corruption, greed, and the relentless pursuit of justice. In this hardcover edition of Vijay Kumar's debut book, the reader is taken deep into the mysterious world of art thievery. The nonfiction book could have very well been a thriller genre fiction about how a handful of volunteers team up to counter millions of dollars worth racket involving stolen art and artifacts.                            More significantly, here we are talking about idols of Gods and Goddesses stolen from temples located in Tamil Nadu, a southern state in India. A well-oiled network of thieves, art dealers, bus...

Anger: Not a negative emotion, but your advocate for change Summary Anger is not always the enemy; in fact, it can be a powerful ally. Instead of suppressing it, listen to what your anger is trying to tell you—it may be guiding you towards change, urging you to leave toxic situations, confront deep-seated emotional wounds, or break harmful cycles. Discover how anger is your inner self standing up for your worth, and how channeling it constructively can lead to growth and self-respect. --- You know that tight knot in your chest when someone crosses the line, that burning sensation when you feel wronged? That is not just anger—it is your inner self standing up for you. Anger is your internal alarm, alerting you when something in your life isn’t right. The challenge is, most of us are conditioned to see anger only as a negative emotion. We are taught to calm down, be quiet, and suppress it, but what if we are ignoring an important message? Just as hunger signals the need for food, anger i...

Originally published - 22 Dec 2008  Updated - 25 Sept, 2024 /// This is my first time writing (blogging) here. I would like to thank Tushar for inviting me to this library. The ever famous book ' Who Moved My Cheese?' by Dr. Spencer Johnson is a favorite of mine. Instead of telling how to be successful with real life boring stories, Dr. Johnson crafts a wonder full story dealing with four imaginary characters depicted in the story -the mice Sniff and scurry and little people Hem and Haw- who are intended to represent the simple and the complex parts of ourselves. It is story about change that takes place in one's life where four amusing characters look for cheese. Cheese being the metaphor for what we want to have in life whether it is a job or relationship, money, house, freedom, health spiritual peace or even an activity like jogging etc. In the story the 4 characters are searching for cheese. They go in the maze everyday to search for it. One day they find it at chees...

This story follows Shamas and Anamica, two individuals navigating love, loyalty, and relationships with humour and warmth. Through their sharp banter and deep conversations, the tale explores the nuances of commitment, emotional vulnerability, and what it truly means to be irreplaceable. A charming blend of wit, heart, and laughter — this is a story for anyone who's ever loved deeply. --- You know how some stories begin with "Once upon a time" and you immediately think, “Well, here comes another fairy tale”? My story, though, has no such illusion. This is real life—complete with the kind of moments that are both funny and achingly true. The kind of story that might make you say, “That’s exactly me.” Or perhaps, “I would never.” But whether you like it or not, the tale of Shamas and Anamica is one you’ll remember. Shamas, my friend, was always the funny one. You know the type: quick-witted, always ready with a joke, but rarely letting anyone past his defences. Then there w...

A Review of "Kashmir Under 370"  In Kashmir Under 370, Mahendra Sabharwal and his son, Manish Sabharwal, offer an insightful exploration of Jammu and Kashmir’s recent history through the eyes of its former Director General of Police. From his unique vantage point, Sabharwal reflects on the impact of Article 370’s abrogation, terrorism, and the politics that have shaped the region. With a mix of personal anecdotes and deep political analysis, this is a must-read for those seeking to understand the complexities of Kashmir. --- Is Kashmir Under 370 just another political book? At first glance, Kashmir Under 370 might seem like another politically charged narrative, a common fixture in the discourse around Jammu and Kashmir. But what sets this book apart is the deeply personal nature of its storytelling. Co-authored by Mahendra Sabharwal, a career police officer who served as Jammu and Kashmir’s Director General of Police, and his son, Manish Sabharwal, an entrepreneur with roots...

The tragic story of Anna Sebastian Perayil, an EY employee who succumbed to a toxic work culture, reflects a widespread issue in modern workplaces. This article delves into her mother’s powerful letter to EY’s Chairman, who failed to respond until it went public. We explore how toxic seniority-driven work cultures are destroying mental health globally and offer actionable solutions on how empathy, pay parity, and speaking up can build better workplaces. --- We all know what it is like to be at the bottom of the ladder. When you are new to a job, unsure, eager to learn, but also terrified of making mistakes. Now imagine, instead of guidance, you are met with endless pressure, unreasonable demands, and a culture where speaking up feels like career suicide. This is not a hypothetical. It was the reality for Anna Sebastian Perayil, a young EY (Ernst & Young) employee, who tragically lost her life because of the toxic work culture she encountered while auditing Bajaj Auto. T...