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House of Elders: The new age community where independence meets care

Assisted living for seniors isn’t just about care—it is about rediscovering life. "House of Elders" explores the rise of assisted-living communities offering companionship, independence, and holistic well-being. From their impact on mental health to overcoming societal stigma, this piece sheds light on the innovative solutions catering to India's aging population, making retirement years golden indeed.

What is the House of Elders?

Imagine a sanctuary where elders can live freely, build meaningful connections, and receive essential care—all under one roof. The "House of Elders" concept epitomises this vision.  These assisted-living spaces are not just homes but vibrant communities. They blend independence with assistance, fostering a sense of belonging for India’s ageing population.

House of Elders: The New Age Community Where Independence Meets Care

In 2012, Royal Palms collaborated with global players like Retired Lifestyle of Australia to create retirement villages that rival their Western counterparts. With increasing demand, such spaces are bridging the gap between comfort, security, and care.

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Why do we need more assisted-living properties?

In India, where family is the cornerstone of caregiving, the need for assisted-living facilities is a cultural shift driven by urbanisation and nuclear families. Statistics indicate that India will have over 300 million senior citizens by 2050. This rise makes elder care an urgent priority.

Developers are stepping in, but the supply is still inadequate. These spaces provide more than shelter—they offer dignity, healthcare, and a thriving social ecosystem.

Fact Check: In India, nearly 60% of senior citizens experience isolation or loneliness. Assisted living is a viable antidote, fostering community and mental health.

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How do such communities impact mental health?

Living in an assisted-living community isn’t just a logistical choice; it is an emotional one. Social interaction reduces loneliness and depression, while structured activities enhance cognitive function.

Take Dhananjay’s mother, who moved into a Pune elderly commune. Once dependent on family, she found independence, friends, and a renewed sense of purpose in this community. “I don’t feel guilty anymore,” says Dhananjay.

However, there is an emotional baggage challenge. Many seniors carry past traumas or prejudices. By creating inclusive and empathetic environments, such communities help residents heal and embrace their new beginnings.

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What types of assisted-living complexes exist?

Assisted-living properties come in various forms, catering to different needs:

  1. Independent Living Communities: For active seniors seeking minimal assistance.
  2. Continuing Care Communities: Offer progressive care, from independent living to full-time nursing.
  3. Memory Care Facilities: Tailored for Alzheimer’s and dementia patients.
  4. Luxury Retirement Villages: Combine opulence with senior-specific amenities.
  5. Affordable Housing: Focus on economical options for lower-income groups.

Each model addresses distinct needs, ensuring that no senior is left behind.


How do costs and facilities compare?

Costs vary widely, from affordable Rs 2,000 monthly charges in basic facilities to Rs 6,000 in premium complexes.

Facilities offered:

  • Medical care (telemedicine, outpatient services).
  • Recreational areas (libraries, courts, social clubs).
  • Security and privacy.
  • Continuous care units for critical health needs.

Do these communities build an alternate family?

Raghav and Seema, both retired professionals, are eyeing such homes in Bangalore as their next abode. “We want a space where we can be independent yet cared for,” says Seema.

Such communities thrive on togetherness, where residents form social groups, mentor younger staff, or even take part in running the management.


What are the challenges in this sector?

While the concept is promising, challenges remain:

  • Sustainability: Many developers lack expertise in long-term care services.
  • Maintenance: Providing consistent, high-quality facilities.
  • Elder Abuse Prevention: Safeguards against exploitation or negligence.

However, developers are planning critical care units and specialised centres for chronic illnesses, ensuring a more robust support system.


Five books to explore the topic further

  1. “Being Mortal” by Atul Gawande – A humane exploration of ageing and care.
  2. “Elderhood” by Louise Aronson – A celebration of the ageing process.
  3. “The 100-Year Life” by Lynda Gratton – A roadmap to longevity.
  4. “Life Worth Living” by William H. Thomas – Tackling ageism and elder care.
  5. “This Chair Rocks” by Ashton Applewhite – A call for a pro-ageing culture.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is the difference between a retirement home and assisted living?
Retirement homes focus on independent living, while assisted-living offers additional healthcare and daily assistance.

2. Are pets allowed in assisted-living communities?
Some properties encourage pets for emotional support.

3. Can residents personalise their apartments?
Yes, most facilities allow personalisation to make the space feel like home.

4. How do I choose the right community?
Look for facilities, medical support, and community vibes that match your needs.

5. Are there tax benefits for senior citizens in these communities?
Yes, some financial benefits and deductions are available under Indian tax laws.


About the Author

Tushar Mangl is an energy healer, vastu expert, and author of The Avenging Act. He writes on personal finance, energy healing, and creating a balanced life.

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