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The bird that wouldn’t be caged: A tale of love, loss, and self-discovery

In the vibrant South American village of Mariposa Azul, Samantha, reeling from a failed marriage, embarks on a journey of healing. Entangled with a brooding poet named Javier, she confronts the bittersweet truth about love, happiness, and the need for self-reliance. Tragic yet transformative, this story illuminates the eternal quest for fulfilment amidst the colours of life.

Why did Samantha come to Mariposa Azul?

If you have ever stumbled upon a postcard-perfect village, you will know what I mean when I say Mariposa Azul felt too beautiful to be real. The skies flirted between cerulean and stormy grey, the trees whispered secrets, and even the air smelled like ripe mangoes and fresh beginnings. I came here because my life, quite frankly, had gone sideways.

I am Samantha—34, moderately charming (on good days), and freshly divorced. When your husband packs up for another woman, leaving behind your favourite frying pan and a three-word note that reads “Not happy, sorry,” you find yourself booking the next flight to wherever your finger lands on a spinning globe.

When he left me for someone named Bianca (yes, Bianca, who smells of lavender and owns four poodles), I packed my bags and let a spinning globe decide my next move. My finger landed on South America. Mariposa Azul wasn’t just a place; it was an escape.

The Bird that Wouldn’t Be caged: A tale of love, loss, and self-discovery

For me, it landed on South America. Specifically, this enchanting, maddening village where people spoke in whispers as if guarding some sacred secret.

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What was Samantha’s life like before the village?

In my former life, I was a copy editor for a mid-tier magazine. My days revolved around misplaced commas, deadlines, and a husband who considered microwave dinners an act of domestic godliness. Our home was neat but sterile, much like our marriage. My only solace was Ginger, our tabby cat, who loved me unconditionally—or at least until I ran out of tuna.

When everything fell apart, I left Ginger with my sister (don’t worry, she is spoiled silly) and sought refuge in a village that looked like it belonged on the cover of a travel magazine. Little did I know Mariposa Azul would be the stage for my greatest transformation.

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What was the village like?

The streets were cobbled and crooked, lined with guava trees so old they could have been scribes for history itself. Houses here were not painted—they were drenched in colours that made your eyes water: mustard yellows, blushing pinks, and a peculiar shade of blue that seemed plucked from a dream.

Food stalls punctuated the roadsides, their sizzling wares calling to my neglected stomach. Empanadas stuffed with cheese and spice, roasted corn that seemed kissed by fire, and aguardiente served in delicate ceramic cups. The people? Equally intoxicating. They greeted you with smiles so wide, you could almost forget your sorrows. Almost.

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What did Samantha’s new life look like?

The house I rented was perched on a hill, painted a pale turquoise that faded to grey in the evenings. Jasmine vines crept along its walls, and the air inside smelled of wood polish and the faint musk of old books. The kitchen was small but welcoming, with mismatched tiles and a stove that required both patience and prayer. My mornings began with café con leche and warm 

 from Dona Leticia’s cart down the lane. Her empanadas were tiny pockets of heaven—crispy, golden, and filled with spiced chicken or molten cheese.

I quickly fell into a routine. I’d read by the balcony, sip strong coffee, and occasionally feed the stray dog that had taken a liking to my front porch. I named him Chico. He was scruffy, with one ear perpetually bent, and he followed me everywhere like a furry shadow. Life here was slower, quieter. It gave me space to think—and, more importantly, to feel.


Who was Javier, and why was he so... unsettling?

One evening, as the sun dipped behind the horizon, painting the sky in hues of tangerine and plum, I wandered into the village library. That is where I met him. Javier. He stood by a dusty shelf, thumbing through an old volume of Neruda’s poems. His presence was magnetic, like a storm brewing in the distance. Tall and broad-shouldered, he had a mess of raven curls and eyes that seemed to carry the weight of the world.

“Do you always look this lost?” Javier’s voice came out of nowhere.

He was tall, with a build that suggested he chopped wood for breakfast but wrote poetry before lunch. He was the kind of man you’d fall for and regret instantly. Naturally, I fell.

“I’m not lost,” I countered, clutching a copy of Love’s Eclipse from the library shelf.

“Then what are you doing in Mariposa Azul, señorita?” he asked, a smirk tugging at the corner of his mouth.

“Looking for something?” he asked, his voice a rich baritone that made me momentarily forget how words worked.

Maybe,” I stammered. A fitting choice for someone nursing a heartbreak, don’t you think?

“Good choice,” he said with a smirk. “But beware—it will either heal you or ruin you further.”

That was Javier: infuriatingly confident, devastatingly perceptive, and—despite my better judgement—the kind of human magnet you couldn’t walk away from. Javier was blunt, enigmatic, and, as I would soon learn, heartbreakingly poetic. He lived on the outskirts of the village, in a tiny house shaded by sprawling banyan trees. His walls were lined with books, his table cluttered with ink-stained notebooks. He was a poet—not a published one, but a passionate one. And in his company, I began to rediscover parts of myself I thought I’d lost.


What did we share under the Willow trees?

Our friendship (if you could call it that) blossomed quickly.Our first proper meeting was by the river, under a canopy of willow trees that swayed as if to some unheard music. We spent hours by the riverbank, beneath willows whose branches dipped into the water like dancers testing their reflection. Conversations with Javier were like uncharted journeys—equal parts thrilling and terrifying.

He recited poetry like a man possessed, his words brushing against me as softly as the breeze.

“You know, happiness is an illusion,” he said one day, sprawled on the grass, his shirt half-unbuttoned.

“Not true,” I argued, plucking a wild marigold. “Happiness is... a warm empanada on a cold day.”

He laughed—a sound so rare it felt like winning the lottery. “And here I thought you were a romantic.”

“Not anymore,” I muttered, thinking of my ex-husband and his ridiculous note.He laughed, a rare sound that felt like sunshine breaking through clouds. But there was truth in his words. I was broken, and part of me was looking for someone to fix me. Javier, with his intensity and passion, seemed like the perfect candidate.

One evening, he looked at me and said, “You’re like a bird that’s forgotten how to fly.”

“And you’re like a storm cloud,” I shot back. “Dramatic, dark, and very likely to ruin someone’s day.”

What was Samantha’s fondness for animals like?

Chico, my loyal stray, adored Javier. Whenever he visited, Chico would wag his scruffy tail as if greeting an old friend. Then there were the parrots that nested in the mango tree outside my house. Their chatter reminded me of Ginger, who I missed terribly. I found comfort in these creatures—their simplicity, their acceptance. Unlike people, they demanded nothing from me but kindness.


What broke us apart?

I  will spare you the gory details of our argument, but it ended with me shouting something dramatic: “I cannot be happy with you because I cannot yet be happy with myself!”

It happened one rainy night. The storm had rolled in unexpectedly, drenching the village in a torrential downpour. Javier and I had taken shelter in an abandoned gazebo by the river. The air was thick with tension, the kind that made every glance and every touch feel amplified.

“Why do you push people away?” he asked, his voice steady but his eyes searching.

“Because they leave anyway,” I replied, my chest tightening. “Isn’t it better to let go before they do?”

“Not everyone leaves, Samantha,” he said, stepping closer. “Some of us stay. But you have to let us.”

The kiss that followed was inevitable—fiery, desperate, and bittersweet. It wasn’t love; it was two broken souls seeking solace. And that’s when I knew: I was falling into the same trap. I was trying to find happiness in someone else when I hadn’t yet found it within myself.

The next day, I told Javier the truth. “I cannot be happy with you because I cannot yet be happy with myself.”

His reply was quieter, but it cut deeper. “Then maybe you should stop looking for happiness in people like me.”

I left the next morning, heart heavy but determined. Sometimes, walking away is the only way forward.


What happened to Javier?

I left Mariposa Azul shortly after.Weeks later, I learned Javier had taken his own life. A mutual friend told me he’d left behind a poem:

Some birds are not meant to be caged,

For their wings carry storms too heavy to tame.

I cried for days. Not just for Javier, but for the part of me that had hoped he could save me. But deep down, I knew—we were both searching for something neither of us could provide.


Did I find what I was looking for?

Mariposa Azul, with its vibrant colours and vivid memories, became the foundation of my healing. It taught me that love, however intoxicating, cannot be the architect of your joy. On a train heading north, I penned these words in my journal:
“Happiness is not a destination or a person. It is a house we build alone, brick by solitary brick.”

I learned to cook, to laugh, to be alone without feeling lonely. And though I still miss Javier, I carry his words as a reminder: happiness is a bird best set free.


Frequently asked Questions

1. Why is self-reliance important in relationships?

Because relying solely on others for happiness can lead to dependency and disillusionment. Relationships thrive when both individuals are whole and self-sufficient.

2. What are some signs you are seeking validation from others?
Overthinking their opinions, prioritising their happiness over your own, and feeling incomplete without them are major signs.

3. How can someone find happiness within themselves?
Engage in self-reflection, pursue hobbies, set personal goals, and surround yourself with positivity.

Why does the story emphasise personal growth before love?

Because love, when shared between two self-reliant individuals, becomes a celebration rather than a need.

Bio:
Tushar Mangl - Healer and Author - Ardika. Writes on personal finance, Vastu, mental health, food, leisure, and a greener, better society.

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