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Are you in love or just filling a void? Here is how to tell the truth

​ This article explores the profound question of whether one's feelings are rooted in genuine love or a response to emotional voids. Through personal anecdotes, psychological insights, and reflective questions, it offers guidance on recognizing trauma bonds, understanding the importance of self-love, and embarking on a healing journey. ​ Love or loneliness? How to tell if you are really in love or filling an emotional void What Does It Mean to Be in Love Versus Filling an Emotional Void? Is Your Desire Rooted in Loneliness or Healing? How Can You Check Your Aura and Inner Child? Why Should You Hug a Tree and Cleanse Your Energy? Are Past Unresolved Traumas Influencing Your Relationships? Why Is Self-Love Crucial Before Loving Others? Do You Desire Intimacy or Just Fear Being Alone? Are You Following the Herd Mentality in Relationships? What does it mean to be in love versus filling an emotional void? Love is often romanticized as a magical feeling that...

Adulescent Dating

Orginal text written on 9/19/07 Revised version - 11/24/24 One of the disturbing trends in our society today is adolescent dating, often referred to as "adulescent" dating—a term used to describe adolescents growing up too fast and stepping into adulthood prematurely. What is even more alarming is that this phenomenon is not limited to urban centers or big cities; it has seeped into small towns as well, posing a serious threat to societal ethics and values. It is especially dangerous for teenagers, who are already burdened with immense pressure from academics, social expectations, and personal development. Are Teenagers Mature Enough for Dating? Picture two 16-year-olds navigating the complexities of dating. The first concern is: are they mature enough to make such decisions? Can they choose their partners wisely, decide where to go on dates, and most importantly, understand the consequences of their actions? Alarmingly, many teenagers seem oblivious to these consequences. ...

You can appreciate someone yet recognise their potential to become better

It is perfectly fine to appreciate people for who they are. But let us face it—settling for mediocrity when you can recognise someone’s potential to be better is not an act of love. It is like having the world’s most fertile soil but never planting a seed. Why would you allow someone you care about to stop growing when you know they have the capacity for so much more? True love is not about promoting complacency; it is about challenging those you love to rise above mediocrity and become the best version of themselves. So, why not inspire greatness, invoke change, and push them to blossom? Is it possible to appreciate someone while pushing them to grow? Why should you challenge someone you love to be better? How can recognizing someone’s potential lead to positive change? Can complacency in relationships stunt personal growth? How do you inspire someone to embrace change? What role does fear play in resisting growth? Why is change a constant and unavoidable part of life? How does promot...