Tushar Mangl

Creating a "When I Die" folder ensures your family is prepared for the inevitable. This guide explores the five essentials you should include: legal documents, financial details, funeral wishes, family conversations, and personal instructions. Think of it as a gift of clarity for your loved ones, shielding them from confusion and disputes during an emotionally challenging time. Introduction: Why start a "When I Die" folder today? I remember a story about a friend’s father who passed unexpectedly. He was the cornerstone of their family, but his meticulous planning was nowhere to be found when it mattered most. Important financial details were scattered, burial preferences were a mystery, and every conversation led to tears or arguments. Grieving the loss was hard enough without the added chaos of uncertainty. Despite being a meticulous man in life, he left no clear instructions for after his death. The result? Endless paperwork, strained relationships, and the linger...

Orginal text written on 9/19/07 Revised version - 11/24/24 One of the disturbing trends in our society today is adolescent dating, often referred to as "adulescent" dating—a term used to describe adolescents growing up too fast and stepping into adulthood prematurely. What is even more alarming is that this phenomenon is not limited to urban centers or big cities; it has seeped into small towns as well, posing a serious threat to societal ethics and values. It is especially dangerous for teenagers, who are already burdened with immense pressure from academics, social expectations, and personal development. Are Teenagers Mature Enough for Dating? Picture two 16-year-olds navigating the complexities of dating. The first concern is: are they mature enough to make such decisions? Can they choose their partners wisely, decide where to go on dates, and most importantly, understand the consequences of their actions? Alarmingly, many teenagers seem oblivious to these consequences. ...

Originally written in 2005, updated in 2024 Today’s schoolchildren, shaped by accessible technology and societal change, live complex lives that few adults truly understand. From hidden gatherings to untold pressures, their world is both a playground and a battleground of modern challenges. Here, we explore this hidden universe, filled with freedom, struggle, and secrets parents rarely see. Imagine this: Inside a sleek, dimly lit pub in Delhi, a vibrant crowd of teenagers moves to reggae rhythms, the room thick with excitement and cigarette smoke. Their clothes shimmer under neon lights, and mocktails swirl in their hands. They’re celebrating, yet their families know nothing of tonight’s revelry. What was meant to be a simple “Conti” or continuation party between senior and junior students has become a revealing picture of freedom and concealment in the lives of today’s schoolchildren. Many adults might wonder how something so bold could happen without parents or teachers knowing. Yet ...

Explore the multifaceted world of colours like purple, pink, green, and blue—each with its own spectrum significance, planetary connection, elemental association, and attributes. Discover how colours influence our personalities, emotions, and even health in unique ways. Unravel the mystery of these hues and find out what your favourite colour says about you. - - - When you think of colours, do you feel a subtle connection to one over others? Colours have a way of influencing our emotions, actions, and even physical health. From the regal intensity of purple to the serene allure of blue, each colour has a distinct character shaped by centuries of human perception. In this article, we’ll take a close look at some of the most impactful colours in the spectrum and their fascinating roles in our lives. 1. What makes Purple so special in the Spectrum? Purple sits proudly as the sixth and final colour in the visible spectrum. This intense hue combines the calm of blue and the fierce energy o...

  Date : 15/08/2006 Summary : In this diary entry, Tushar Mangl reflects critically on India’s progress 59 years after independence. He laments ongoing issues such as electricity shortages, corruption, and public complacency, examining the intertwined roles of both the government and the public in creating the country's current challenges. Mangl voices frustration over political sycophancy, systemic mismanagement, and the responsibilities that citizens hold in upholding a democracy. He critiques the Congress party's leadership post-independence while acknowledging some of its contributions, calling for greater accountability and active citizenship. Diary Entry: 15/08/2006 Happy Independence Day! After 59 years of independence, I still don’t receive 24-hour electricity. It’s not just disappointing; it’s shameful. A person, a human being, typically reaches retirement after fulfilling many responsibilities. But, looking at our past, India’s record is a striking example of mismanag...

Swachh Bharat was sold as a movement towards a cleaner India. But what if I told you it is more about emptying your pockets than cleaning the streets? Between multiple taxes, questionable allocation of funds, and the government’s non-serious approach to sanitation, it is worth asking: Is this just a cash cow? Let us unpack it all. Why maturity means realizing Swachh Bharat isn’t about cleanliness but taxing you You probably cheered when the Swachh Bharat Mission was first announced back in 2014. Finally, a concerted effort to clean up our streets, improve sanitation, and rid our cities of that embarrassing public waste problem. I imagined clean roads, public toilets that actually worked, and no more open defecation in rural areas. Fast forward to today, and what do we have? A hefty tax burden, vague statistics on improvement, and a nagging sense that we have all been conned. Is it just another way to tax you? To begin, let us talk taxes—because if Swachh Bharat has achieved anything, ...

Childhood experiences often leave long-lasting imprints, especially when they involve emotional pain or trauma. If you have ever felt unloved, neglected, or compared unfavorably by your parents, it is crucial to understand: none of that was your fault. In this article, we explore how childhood trauma can carry over into adulthood, how to forgive yourself, and how to begin the healing process. Remember, you are worthy and always have been.                          What happened in your childhood wasn't your fault—But why do you still blame yourself? It is a truth that might be hard to accept: what happened during your childhood wasn’t your fault. The things your parents said or did—their anger, their criticism, the comparisons they made—were never a reflection of your value. But if that is the case, why do so many of us carry the weight of these memories into adulthood, wearing them like heavy chains around our necks? I hav...

This isn't your average tuition story. Three teachers in Mumbai allegedly sexually assaulted a 13-year-old student, exploiting her vulnerability. Buckle up, this one's a tough read, but an important conversation. Just picture this - you're 13, grappling with the fallout of your parents' divorce, and the sudden absence of a male figure at home. You turn to tuition for academic support, a safe haven for learning. But what if that very space becomes a breeding ground for something sinister? This is the horrifying reality for a young girl in Mumbai. Three of her tuition teachers, Gautam, Tarun Rajpurohit, and Satya Raj, allegedly turned predators, sexually assaulting her on multiple occasions. They not only violated her trust but also exposed her to explicit images and videos. The news hits hard, doesn't it? Like a punch to the gut. It is a sickening reminder that predators can lurk anywhere, preying on the most vulnerable. This isn't an isolated incident. Remember ...

 I wrote in length about the terrible tragedy of death of Anna Sebastian Periyal in my story Be the Senior you needed when you were a junior : How one simple idea could change the world.Many of you asked me for a dedicated  post to Anna, with the reserved question, will she and many other exploited workers in India today ever get justice? Or rising unemployment levels will allow the greedy to  fill their corporate coffers without any shame  or remorse. October 1, 2024 It has been several months since the tragic death of Anna Sebastian Periyal, a young Ernst & Young (EY) employee, shook the corporate world. Her passing was tied to the toxic work culture at EY, particularly during her auditing assignment for Bajaj Auto, where excessive pressure and untenable work conditions reportedly contributed to her demise. As her story gained widespread attention, the question remains: Will Anna get justice in this world driven by greed and selfishness? --- Why has the Nation ...