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And someday If you leave me, you will regret it later

This story follows Shamas and Anamica, two individuals navigating love, loyalty, and relationships with humour and warmth. Through their sharp banter and deep conversations, the tale explores the nuances of commitment, emotional vulnerability, and what it truly means to be irreplaceable. A charming blend of wit, heart, and laughter — this is a story for anyone who's ever loved deeply. --- You know how some stories begin with "Once upon a time" and you immediately think, “Well, here comes another fairy tale”? My story, though, has no such illusion. This is real life—complete with the kind of moments that are both funny and achingly true. The kind of story that might make you say, “That’s exactly me.” Or perhaps, “I would never.” But whether you like it or not, the tale of Shamas and Anamica is one you’ll remember. Shamas, my friend, was always the funny one. You know the type: quick-witted, always ready with a joke, but rarely letting anyone past his defences. Then there w...

Kashmir Under 370 - book review- A personal history of conflict, change, and hope

A Review of "Kashmir Under 370"  In Kashmir Under 370, Mahendra Sabharwal and his son, Manish Sabharwal, offer an insightful exploration of Jammu and Kashmir’s recent history through the eyes of its former Director General of Police. From his unique vantage point, Sabharwal reflects on the impact of Article 370’s abrogation, terrorism, and the politics that have shaped the region. With a mix of personal anecdotes and deep political analysis, this is a must-read for those seeking to understand the complexities of Kashmir. --- Is Kashmir Under 370 just another political book? At first glance, Kashmir Under 370 might seem like another politically charged narrative, a common fixture in the discourse around Jammu and Kashmir. But what sets this book apart is the deeply personal nature of its storytelling. Co-authored by Mahendra Sabharwal, a career police officer who served as Jammu and Kashmir’s Director General of Police, and his son, Manish Sabharwal, an entrepreneur with roots...

Be the Senior you needed when you were a junior: How one simple idea could change the world 🌎

The tragic story of Anna Sebastian Perayil, an EY employee who succumbed to a toxic work culture, reflects a widespread issue in modern workplaces. This article delves into her mother’s powerful letter to EY’s Chairman, who failed to respond until it went public. We explore how toxic seniority-driven work cultures are destroying mental health globally and offer actionable solutions on how empathy, pay parity, and speaking up can build better workplaces. --- We all know what it is like to be at the bottom of the ladder. When you are new to a job, unsure, eager to learn, but also terrified of making mistakes. Now imagine, instead of guidance, you are met with endless pressure, unreasonable demands, and a culture where speaking up feels like career suicide. This is not a hypothetical. It was the reality for Anna Sebastian Perayil, a young EY (Ernst & Young) employee, who tragically lost her life because of the toxic work culture she encountered while auditing Bajaj Auto. T...

Tales from Shakespeare by Charles and Mary Lamb - book review

A Children's Book No One Should Read – Or Should They? Summary “Tales from Shakespeare” by Charles and Mary Lamb has delighted readers for over two centuries, but it is time we reconsider its place in modern literature. Originally written as an “introduction to Shakespeare,” it weaves sexist tropes, objectifies characters, and promotes regressive gender roles. Is this really what we want to hand to our children? Read on for a thoughtful critique of this so-called children’s classic. --- Have you ever come across a children’s book that, at first glance, seems perfectly innocent—maybe even charming—but after closer inspection, you wonder why anyone thought it was a good idea for kids? That’s how I felt when I revisited Tales from Shakespeare  by Charles and Mary Lamb, a book that many of us have either heard of or, perhaps, read during our childhood. The book, often passed off as a harmless introduction to the world of Shakespeare, feels more like a collection of cautionary tales for...

People that elect corrupt politicians, imposters and traitors are not victims but accomplices – Are we all guilty?

When George Orwell penned the phrase, " A people that elect corrupt politicians, imposters, thieves, and traitors are not victims but accomplices ," he was not merely pointing fingers at the misdeeds of politicians, but at the broader societal complicity in tolerating, enabling, and even endorsing such leadership. It's an uncomfortable truth: we, the citizens, are part of the system, either by action or inaction. But how did we reach this point of collective responsibility? And more importantly, is there a way out? 2024 is one of the defining year for World politics. Elections have happened in France, United Kingdom, India, Thailand and many other countries. United States is going to poll next and Bangladesh is expected to elect a new government as well. I don’t recall any year in recent memory which has seen such a busy slate of national elections across the Globe. This is what makes this article important to discuss.  What makes us complicit? I often wonder: Are we tru...

Should parenting be a certainty? A hard look at who should be raising kids

“Sometimes I think the answer lies in wondering if the lives we are creating for others are better than the ones we inherited ourselves.” I am convinced that many people who are parents should not be. It is a bold statement, but when you strip away the romanticised lens through which we have been conditioned to view parenthood, it becomes harder to ignore the underlying truth: parenting is not something to be taken lightly. Nor is it a choice that should be made unless you are 100% certain —mentally, emotionally, and financially ready for it.  Is parenting more than just a biological destiny? The moment you announce that you are pregnant, society collectively leans in, nods approvingly, and asks about baby showers and cribs. The truth? Being responsible for an entire human being is incredibly tough—life-altering, in fact. Yet, people still push forward with the idea that it’s something “ you just do, ” that it will all work out because, well, doesn’t it always? In reality, parentin...

Genocide in Gaza: How colonialism has alienated you from your own humanity

The discomfort you feel speaking up about genocide in Palestine: How colonialism has alienated us from humanity Why does speaking about Gaza feel so unsettling? There is an undeniable discomfort that arises when we speak of genocide in Gaza, a conflict rooted not only in geopolitics but also in a long history of colonialism. That discomfort? It is a manifestation of how deeply colonialism has alienated us from our own humanity. It has made us bystanders, distant observers, to a grotesque tragedy that demands our empathy and action. Every day, the children of Gaza are bombarded by forces much larger than themselves—forces of colonial interests, global profits, and silent complicity. How many of us have spoken up about the atrocities in Gaza? How many of us have chosen silence because the violence feels too far away, too complex, or too heavy to carry? That silence—our silence—perpetuates a chasm in our spirit, a gap that must be bridged if we are to mend not just Palestine, but the fray...