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Stop Suffering in Silence: Is Kindness Worth the cost?

In a bustling café in the heart of a nameless city, Maya, a kind but frustrated woman, learns a life-altering truth: kindness is no excuse for self-sacrifice. Amidst coffee cups and conversations, she meets Alex, an unlikely friend who helps her navigate the rocky terrain of self-respect, challenging society’s warped ideas about kindness, sacrifice, and silent suffering. "Kindness is not about letting people walk over you." Now, those words would have been music to my ears... if I’d heard them back then. But like most epiphanies, it came a little late for me. Back when I was blissfully unaware that my “kindness” could be my undoing, I was just Maya, a nice girl, sitting alone in a quaint café in the city, staring into my third cup of tea. I remember it was raining outside, a kind of soft, gentle drizzle that perfectly matched the soft, steady erosion of my own boundaries. If only my story had ended with a lovely scene of raindrops and chamomile tea, but no, it took a long, me

COLOUR PERSONA: Discovering the Powerful Influence of Colour on Personality, Health, and Life

 Colours hold subtle powers over us, shaping emotions, health, and even our personalities in ways we seldom realise. In this journey we explore how each colour—from vibrant reds to serene blues—interacts with the nervous system, sparking traits, moods, and desires. Whether you’re drawn to red’s fierce energy or yellow’s sunny intellect, this article unravels the captivating science behind colours and offers tips to harness them for a more balanced life. Introduction Do you have a favourite colour that you just can't get enough of? Maybe you lean towards fiery reds or soft greens. You may not realise it, but the colours we’re drawn to say a lot about us. Scientific studies show colours can affect our moods, emotions, and even our health in ways that are profound yet often go unnoticed. Each colour holds its own vibration, influencing our energy, thoughts, and personality. Let's take a closer look at how this hidden power works. In the world each colour reveals personality traits

The power of Colour: What Your Favourite Hue Reveals About You

Explore the profound and multifaceted world of colours like purple, pink, green, and blue—each with its own spectrum significance, planetary connection, elemental association, and attributes. Discover how colours influence our personalities, emotions, and even health in unique ways. Unravel the mystery of these hues and find out what your favourite colour says about you. - - - When you think of colours, do you feel a subtle connection to one over others? Colours have a way of influencing our emotions, actions, and even physical health. From the regal intensity of purple to the serene allure of blue, each colour has a distinct character shaped by centuries of human perception. In this article, we’ll take a close look at some of the most impactful colours in the spectrum and their fascinating roles in our lives. 1. What Makes Purple so Special in the Spectrum? Purple sits proudly as the sixth and final colour in the visible spectrum. This intense hue combines the calm of blue and the fi

Reflecting on India's Independence: The Price of Mismanagement

  Date : 15/08/2006 Summary : In this diary entry, Tushar Mangl reflects critically on India’s progress 59 years after independence. He laments ongoing issues such as electricity shortages, corruption, and public complacency, examining the intertwined roles of both the government and the public in creating the country's current challenges. Mangl voices frustration over political sycophancy, systemic mismanagement, and the responsibilities that citizens hold in upholding a democracy. He critiques the Congress party's leadership post-independence while acknowledging some of its contributions, calling for greater accountability and active citizenship. Diary Entry: 15/08/2006 Happy Independence Day! After 59 years of independence, I still don’t receive 24-hour electricity. It’s not just disappointing; it’s shameful. A person, a human being, typically reaches retirement after fulfilling many responsibilities. But, looking at our past, India’s record is a striking example of mismanag

Self-Discovery: The Key to True Knowledge

Summary: In this diary entry dated 21/08/2006 , Tushar Mangl reflects on the concept of knowledge, particularly self-knowledge. He highlights the tendency of people to seek knowledge on various subjects but often neglect the crucial understanding of their own needs, aspirations, and beliefs. Through anecdotes, he explores the significance of self-awareness in making authentic life choices. Diary Entry Know Thyself - Socrates 21/08/2006 Knowledge – This is a keyword I aim to present consistently in my writings. I try to enlighten readers through humor, anecdotes, clippings, and other insights. Now, I’m even attempting to draw knowledge out of myself. Here’s a piece of advice for you: gain knowledge. There’s nothing wrong with that. Whatever subject interests you, you have abundant options—be it the internet, books, magazines, newspapers, or friends—all offering a wealth of information. However, there’s one subject that we often overlook: ourselves . My advice to all my readers is to u

Reflections of an Unquiet Mind

  Summary: In this excerpt from his diary, Tushar Mangl opens up about his journey through the pain of his past, his struggles with destiny, and his yearning for meaning. Through raw, introspective reflections, he examines his life, recalling his early dislike for writing and his newfound curiosity about literature. Mangl’s candid insights reveal a soul grappling with profound existential questions. 24/08/2006 What should I write today? There are so many feelings I need to discuss and review, but I can’t seem to draw the strength. One fine day, I would like to look back and recall these 19 years of life. I feel like an unlucky person, at least in my own eyes. When I look back, my eyes fill with tears. No, that wasn’t the childhood I deserved. If I have to blame anyone, it’s destiny—filled with misery, sadness, and loneliness. My life feels more like a punishment. Each day I live, I end up wishing for a quick death. The past has never been good, the present holds nothing, and the future

The Importance of Communication and Decision-Making in Families

This diary entry by Tushar Mangl reflects on the communication dynamics within traditional Indian families, comparing them with Western practices. Mangl discusses the lack of open communication, especially between parents and children, in Indian families, which often hinders younger family members' confidence and decision-making skills. He advocates for involving children in family discussions to build stronger bonds, increase understanding, and encourage personal growth. August 8, 2006 In traditional family settings, especially in India, speaking openly, especially against the head of the family, is seen as disrespectful. Any attempt to question or challenge family decisions is often met with disapproval, labeling the speaker as a “batmize” (Hindi term for disrespectful), making open communication even harder. When family members cannot express themselves freely, it creates an environment where effective communication is stifled, limiting personal development. Hierarchical structu